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I've come to the realization that there is just way to much drama in my life. How exactly do you go about ending said drama? It comes from one specific person in my life (not that said person is my only source). I am 30 years old and there are days when I feel like I am still in high school. Granted the drama is different this time but I still get that same sick to my stomach feeling when issues come up that I know will stir up drama. Actually no, in high school the drama was exciting! The she said this..omg! can you believe she's wearing THAT?! Now I am just done. I don't need it and I don't want it. I want friends around me who are truly my friends. Who support me and are there for me. Not just to dish about this person or that person or this group or that group. There is some stuff going on in my life right now and this person doesn't even know it. Granted I haven't told them anything about it but is it a TRUE friendship when you don't even bother to bring it up to them.
I want to get back to a simplier time. I've finally come the the realization I am wasting to much valuable time on all this extra crap in my life I'm not focusing on the things that matter. So back to my original question...how do I stop the drama? I guess the mature thing to do would sit down and have an honest open conversation with this person and lay it all on the table.
Maybe this person is reading this blog post right...maybe he/she will see themselves in it. Maybe it will help them become a better person and just KNOCK IT OFF. Maybe I won't hear from them again.
I guess time will only tell.....
and if you aren't able to sit down and talk to this person about how the friendship isn't what you want it to be, you could always decrease the amount of contact between you and said person. good luck!
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